* What happens after i finish registering?

We you are done registering, an e-mail will be send to you (that is way it is very important that you will give a working email) asking you to confirm your registration either by clicking on the attached link or by copying the confirm id and pasting it to the last page you have been to after you have completed your registration.
The reason we do that is to avoid spam users.

* Why do I get approval status in my profile after registration and I can’t communicate with other members?

Right after you have registered, your account is in a approval status which mean that you can log in but not use the site. The reason for that is to allow us to read your profile, look at the photos/audio messages/video messages you have upload in order to make sure that only quality member will be allowed to be members.(no spam users, no nude photos…)
As soon as we checked your new profile, we will change it to active. Right after that, you will get an email, notifying you that you are now a full member and that you are capable of full communicating with the other members. This procedure might take up to 24 hour.

* How do i add my own erotic stories?

Very simple. Just log on, and choose”Add Erotic Story” from the left menu. We will review it and add it to our Erotic Stories section

* How to upload an audio message?

On your left menu, click on Upload sound. Download our aemedia program from the page. After installation, open the program and record by clicking on the red button. When you want to stop recording, click on the blue button. You can play the recording by clicking on the green button. When you are satisfied with the message, click on the yellow button. WHILE the program is open, go to back to the site and click on the Upload button. If your upload was successful, you will see on the right menu – download and listen.

* Blog

A BLOG is like your own personal journal/discussion board, if you will. You can start a subject and write about it, and the other members will have the chance to write the comments on that subject.
How to use it?
Log on to the site, click on my blog from the left menu on your control panel. Start a new subject and write about it. Now you can set read permissions and write permission on this blog: public, friends only or private
Remark: when you use public permission, people that are NOT members of our site will be able to access your blog. if you give public permission on write, they will be able to write in your blog with out being a member

* Media Gallery

This is your own media gallery, where you can place all of your photos, audio and video messages.
The photos that you uploaded into your profile are NOT a part of it. If you choose to use the same photos, please upload them again into your gallery.
How to use it?
Log on to the site, click on My gallery on the left menu on your control panel, click on manage categories. Create a new category of photos by giving it a name and describing this category. When you are done, click on add new category button. If you would like to create a new category, do the same procedure again.
When you are done adding categories, click on My gallery on the left menu.

Now your can see the category/ies you have created. Click on the category, where you would like to create an album. Click on manage albums. Crate a new album by giving it a name and a description, choose the permission for this album, then click on add new album. If you would like to create a new album, do the same procedure.
When you are done, click on my gallery on the left menu.

Now you will see the category/ies you have made, and by clicking on the, you will be able to see your albums
To add photos/video/audio to an album, choose a category and then an album, click on manage objects, browse to the photo/audio/video you want to upload, write a shore description and the click on the upload button (under the browse button.

* How to write in members BLOG/watch their gallery?

When you get to the members FULL page (right under your left menu, you have a couple of links which are the members link. There you can watch the gallery, read/write in their BLOG… (see picture )

IM (Instant Messenger)


* How do i use IM to chat directly with another user?

In order for you to have your online privacy, a user must ask you to join him/her to a private IM chat. They can do that by sending you a mail telling you they have opened an IM with you and waiting for you. The way for them to do that is to go to your profile and click on the chat now link. This link will appear only if you are online.
You need to go to that user’s profile, and from there to click on the chat now link. That will open your IM directly with the user or choose not to have this private IM with them.

* What do I need to use the Instant CommunicatorTM?

You will need a connection to the internet, a web browser (e.g. Internet Explorer, Netscape Navigator, Safari or Opera) and the Macromedia Flash Player 6.0+. The Macromedia Flash Player is a plugin for your web browser which allows you to view Flash content on the web. Most current web browsers come with the Flash Player plugin installed. If you receive a notice—when trying to connect to the Instant CommunicatorTM—that the Flash Player is not installed, you may download it and install it for free from Macromedia at:
 http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/download.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash

* I have a pop-up window blocker installed on my machine and cannot receive messages from other users. How can I see who has sent me a message?

You must configure your pop-up blocker to allow popups from the site you are accessing the Instant CommunicatorTM from. Please contact your software developer for instructions on how to do so. If this option is unavailable, you must disable the pop-up window blocker. If it is not disabled, you will not be able to receive incoming messages from new users.

* How do I set my status to ‘away’?

You may set your status to ‘away’ by moving the slider from right to left. You will be notified that your status has been changed. You will become available again immediately if you send a message to another user. User’s will not know that you are away until an attempt has been made to send you a message. While your status is away, you may continue to receive messages in the message window.

* How do i invite a member to IM with me directly?


Just go to the member’s profile and click on chat now. When your IM will come up, write your first sentence and send it. This will send an online request to the member that looks like this:

Then the member can decide to join approve this chat and will come online with you or decline this private chat. If so, you will get a message on your IM.